Great post. What sux is the times we do all that, and still fail! Lol! Very disappointing when that happens, but we have no choice but to start over - persistence. Lol! I just call it a labor of love. Thanks for the post. 
Edit note by Greg: This was re-posted with permission by the author.Dobizo.com said:Many people young and old think success is an unobtainable goal, not cut out for the masses and statistically speaking it can look that way. But it is really up to you at the end of the day to make that choice on whether or not you will lead the life of a 9-5 cubicle slave or make the leap into financial freedom through any of your would-be entrepreneurial endeavors simultaneously paving your way to success. This is not just for business people, but for anyone who has ever had a goal and failed to achieve it whether it was losing weight, earning extra income, or overcoming everyday obstacles in life.
So with that said instead of writing about how to be successful or how to make money or how to increase your chances to success in the next 24 hours I decided to write about why you will never be successful in this lifetime, because many read how they can be successful, but their aren’t many articles to my knowledge on the reasons for people not succeeding even though most can be changed around for the better.
Below I have compiled a list of the most common reasons you will never be successful in this lifetime most are just the grim realities of why most people are never going to succeed unless you make a change today! (In no particular order)
1. Because You Procrastinate. Yes this is definitely one of the more common reasons for most people to never excel in fulfilling their chosen field or business. Instead of taking advantage of every waking moment you make excuses on why you can put it off until tomorrow or put the “grunt” work off until later, which is usually the most important of your daily task. Many will complain about why they’re not successful, but continue to put unimportant events ahead of what really should be a priority to anyone trying to better their situation or build a successful business and the answer is right in front of you and the sad thing is most know it, but fail to do anything about it.
2. Because You Blame What You Lack As Your Reasons For Failure. Nine times out of ten if you ask any person or entrepreneur why they have failed in finishing or accomplishing a goal their sentence will begin with Because I don’t…. Depending on what field of business they’re in many of us could guess how that sentence will end. The sad reality is that most of us lack one thing or another and many of our predecessors have overcome many obstacles and proven time and time again that where you live, your financial status, your race, location, height, and/or belief has no take on whether or not you will be successful and it is ultimately up to you.
3. Because your idea isn’t as Brilliant and Unique as you think. I know this doesn’t come as a surprise to most of you especially if you have ever started a business or had an idea that you thought was just revolutionary or unique with no competition, but once you do a little research or decide to launch you see ten other businesses doing the same thing. As I’m sure you have heard this before, but it is obvious most need to hear it again a successful business begins with a great execution and a failure is well…lack there of. Most ideas have been thought of or tried and tested, but many failed because of their execution and how it was brought about. There are many reasons why the same businesses fail while others succeed timing has a lot to do with it, capital, the person or entrepreneur, knowledge on the subject and much more.
4. Because some of your best ideas are just a memory or were never brought to life. I definitely think this is one of the biggest reasons most are never successful. Many of our best ideas that would have spread virally or been a necessity in life were never brought past the brainstorming process or seemed like one of them unobtainable goals, because most of the time the brilliant ideas are the hardest to accomplish or will have you facing the most obstacles to see them come to life. I read an article about how most everyday people think of at least two million dollar ideas on their way to work during a 5day workweek, but over 90% never put any of them into action pass the thought phase and without reasonable doubt I agree.
5. Because you’re not patient. Many of us fall into this category and I was once a very impatient person when it came to seeing results with a new venture or goal I wanted to attain. I think the above title is why many of us fall victim to all of these get rich schemes we see in our email inbox everyday or on late night television infomercials. In reality there is no quick-legal ways to get rich or becoming successful anything that is worth attaining will take time to acquire. Many of us abandon a business before we give it time to get over the first years slump or automatically mark it as a failure before it has time to reach its full potential.
6. Because there is always somebody working harder than you. This article goes back to the first reason on procrastinating and not taking advantage of all waking moments. Every moment you sleep or take off for a break or make time for anything other than the goal you want to accomplish or business you want to be number one there is always another team of people or a person working toward the same goal. I think every time you decide to tackle an objective or start a new business that you want to succeed that you should definitely keep that in mind…there could always be somebody putting in harder and longer hours than you. Remember the number one spot or your accomplished goals wouldn’t feel so good if you were the only one going for it, because it wouldn’t be worth attaining.
7. Because you wait on luck or opportunity (Meal Ticket) to be given to us. In most instances opportunity is not given to you it is created and you’re lucky if you are prepared. That is why it is important to always be prepared for the unthinkable, because opportunities usually arise when you least expect it and that is why in most cases we’re not prepared and that is what we call bad luck. You can’t wait for ANYTHING to come to you or for somebody to hand it to you. If you want financing for your business go out and get it, if you want to relocate to another city go do it, if you want to be a millionaire before 25 get to work today not tomorrow anything is attainable with hard work and being very persistent no matter how small or large the obstacles to success may seem.
8. Because the odds are against you. In most cases people want to be successful from starting a business whether it is online or offline. The reality is over 50% of small businesses fail within the first five years and out of all businesses started 85% fail within the first five years as you can see it is not in your favor to succeed. Many people who have weight loss goals will most likely not meet them considering that more than 65% of the United States population are either overweight or obese and it was up more than 16% from the year before. Your chances of being a millionaire are not as bad when compared to the other odds, because the average American has a 1 in 13 chance of becoming a millionaire and more than 741,666 become new millionaires every month.
9. Because life is too short. This reason basically takes into mind all of the above reasons for reaching for success failures and taking time for granted and what is presented to you. You should take advantage of every opportunity that is presented to you, make use of every free second you have available, read up on any topic relevant to any goals you want to accomplish, make no excuses for tasks or goals not completed, and realize that you have nobody to blame, but yourself for any failures that you have or goals that you didn’t accomplish within your lifetime.
10. Because you will not make a change today. Even though this article stated in the beginning that “you will never be successful unless you make a change today” most of us will read it in its entirety and actually agree with its content, but will still go back to our same habits of procrastinating, blaming what we lack, putting together half-thought out ideas with poor executions, never bringing our greatest ideas pass the brainstorming process, being impatient and not persistent, letting someone work harder than you for that number one spot, waiting on our meal ticket, still understanding the odds are against you, but not working harder to overcome them, not taking advantage of all our time on this earth to see our dreams and goals manifest into something greater than we ever could imagine.
It is still in your hands whether or not you will become successful and defeat these odds. Just don’t become victim to one of these common mistakes and reasons for not being successful within your lifetime.
I have to agree with you JB. I skimmed the first few words of each point but I refused to read the rest of it.I read the post and it did not motivate me at all.
Thank you for taking the time to read the post -tshirt0mania- and getting the positive out of it. JB i respect your feelings on this one but if you don't see the problems you can't fix the them. That's what this is for, to show you common self sabotaging habits that people should train to avoid. Not to insult you, read the post in its entirety.Actually the title is in the negative, but if you read on the message is actually pretty positive.
dobizo.com said:It is still in your hands whether or not you will become successful and defeat these odds. Just don’t become victim to one of these common mistakes and reasons for not being successful within your lifetime.
I agree 100% with JB on this. All motivational talks do, is insult people's intelligence.
1. Success in business is all about having a product that people actually want to buy.
2. Success in business is all about understanding what the customer wants.
3. Success in business is all about rapidly adapting to changing environments.
4. Success in business is all about spotting opportunity and acting on it.
You can be the most motivated person on the planet, but if you have no concept of why people are going to purchase your product, then you are most likely going to flounder.
I could know everyone under the sun but if they think i'm a crazy glue salesman, how far is it really going to get me?I agree with JB, it's a lot of who you know and how to promote yourself/your product if you are going to be successful. After fulling reading the article though, I understand that it's more satiralistic (<- is that even a word?!) It seems that it's just pointing out some of the main reasons why the majority of people (like myself) get stuck into slumps and dead-end jobs and believe they'll never succeed. A positive spin on this essay is saying basically that with a little work, a little patience, and a little intelligence you can make your dreams a reality, if you want to work hard enough for it.
Prepjerks, I too agree with you and you're right if you don't the problem you can't fix it. I think showing people a problem will not make them successful, it only makes them aware. I still believe that luck has made more people successful. If you 're in the right place at the right time, or know the right person,belong to same church,same club, and so forth.this will make you successful easier and faster than any motivational speech,self help test,or image building seminar. It all comes down to connections and contacts. ..... JBThank you for taking the time to read the post -tshirt0mania- and getting the positive out of it. JB i respect your feelings on this one but if you don't see the problems you can't fix the them. That's what this is for, to show you common self sabotaging habits that people should train to avoid. Not to insult you, read the post in its entirety.
I am glad that you understood the post, you just cannot bring feelings to the business world...I think the post is great...and thank you very much to the OP... I didn't take the advice as negative... just cold hard reality... I see hundreds of people that post about starting a new business... Do it...!!!