Hi StadiumSports
The lack of immediate response posts shows the tricky nature of your application, and the general reluctance of most folks to go out on a limb with any suggestions.
My only observation is that plastisol ink formulas do vary, with certain products "geared" to specific uses and others for general applications. Have you ever tried a dedicated Nylon Jersey ink?
Athletic Plastisol
Rutland, Wilflex, One Stroke, etc., all make nylon specific inks that usually work if ink deposit and cure temp/time is tightly controlled.
Note that multiple times printed and cured jerseys (front/back names/numbers) often receive different cure rates as a result.
Does your print order do the the back #'s last?
I assume the screen mesh count ink deposit is the same on both names and #'s?